Our October Focused Discussion was on the topic: Telling the kids.
Telling the kids is always a challenging discussion between a husband and wife. Sometimes the wife fears telling the children, (no matter how old they are), will damage or hurt them, while the husband is ready to be known fully buy his children. In other situations the wife wants the 'truth' to be known by the family before the husband is ready. In any scenario, it is never clear how the children will react.